Each of us knows there is a feeling in our body when someone speaks to us. Sometimes we hear their voice and it is wonderful…and then in another moment we feel scalded!
The Power of the Voice
We have receptors that are stimulated by the voice of another person. This part of ourselves, the feeling body, receives the unseen part of any communication. When anger is present we feel its attack. With joy we feel stimulation and excitement.
The voice has a tone and a dynamic which conveys another layer of information. We recognize the words on a mental level and our feeling body determines the alignment of truth. Has clarity been conveyed when we listen to the words and when our body senses them?
The Power to Hear
The feeling body allows us to hear and feel the power of what is being said. Often when we decipher the information, we base our thoughts and take action listening only to the words we have received. Too often the words conveyed do not align with the feeling in our body. We do not feel the truth of what is being said. Then we either doubt ourselves or the other person, ending up in confusion.
Our confusion results in the desire to figure out what just happened and what the person was really saying.
This is when we get ourselves into trouble. We may take action based solely on the words or we act based on what we think we heard and felt! A miscommunication has occurred.
Initially we may not know what to do. Our feeling body may have revealed to us an agenda they have or that they are disguising their true thoughts. We may react by discounting them because we have experienced a lack of integrity in their communication.
Decoding misaligned messages
What do we do when this situation occurs? How do we react when our body decodes the misalignment being transmitted by another person? Is there a reaction we feel and then act out? Or do we only accept what is being said?
Now, let’s reverse this conversation to our communication.
We know the power of our words when we deliver an aligned message, where the words are attuned to our feeling body. There is simplicity. We feel the truth of what we say with our voice. Clarity and strength move within us.
Each of us knows that difference.
Has it occurred to you that using your voice validates your clarity? This is part of your original blueprint!
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I ask for clarification when it is a person that I know and feel safe with…
With new acquaintances I would give it some time and see if it was a one time occurrence or a continual disconnect – if the feeling continued I would listen to my senses and keep them at a distance and even go as far as to mention it to a friend should I feel them becoming close to this person (I would only do this if I also perceived danger from the initial new person… But continual statements of untruth DO feel dangerous in most instances).
If the mismatched words and feelings behind them were only a one time occurrence I would be more likely to begin to get to know the person better, but cautiously… I have no place in my life at this point to deal with someone who cannot be open and honest.
I would not confront the person with the feelings that I had, because if they were being deceitful once what would make me think I would get an honest answer the next time, and there is always the chance that they would become angered and strike-out in some serious or mischievous way.
Thank you for your post… This is a very expansive topic. With new acquaintances we each have our own persona. My realization in response to new people has to do first with connection.. Do I feel a connection within me that moves me to speak to the person. When I feel a connection to someone, the feeling is engaging. Even my body will tell me to step back if it feels uncomfortable. When I feel engaged in conversation, it is like inviting someone to come in to my home. I feel welcoming and feel like I am issuing an invitation to speak. The more trust I feel within myself, the easier words flow. My body may initially feel relaxed then tense, then relaxed again as a conversation ensues. This is a natural state of being in conversation.
The more comfortable I am in my own skin, the more aware of the connection I have within myself. I do not always feel comfortable because of my expectations and judgments. As soon as I relax and put these distractions aside, a nature flow takes over. I rarely feel any sense of danger or panic from a conversation unless I or the other person has an agenda. I can feel when someone is receiving my words, just as I can feel the words stop in mid air when the other person is not receiving or welcoming me. This is not an emotional reaction, it is more scientific. As energy moves, it either is consumed or bounces back. Naturally if it is consumed by the other person, the conversation continues. If it bounces back, no further effort beyond diplomacy and grace is needed.
Regarding the perception that something or someone is dangerous, I will often feel this in an environment before I feel this in a person… As an example, the world of dating is full of anticipation, judgment and expectation. If I were to go to a bar with the expectation of finding a hookup for the night, my intentions my invite danger! I have created an at risk situation. In either case, if your body feels alarm beyond the normal discomfort of meeting a new person, why remain in the conversation. I hope this addresses the thoughts you expressed above. Think of your body as a physics and/or chemistry experiment. Actions produce results!
Yes, your reply describes exactly as I feel; I see now after reading your reply that speaking about the physical reaction that our body is having to the situation should be stated and not assumed. I “feel” people’s energy and can judge from that feeling whether I desire to engage with them or not. I can see that this could be compared somewhat to the way our physical body is feeling while near the person, and yes – I definitely agree that one can feel whether the person is accepting my energy or it is being blocked, in the way you portrayed the words stopping in mid-air. Thank you for adding to my own description… One might think you do this sort of thing all the time because you do it so well! Ha.. Wonderful information.