Each day life presents you with numerous opportunities. People work with life in different ways where planning your day can have a variety of approaches. You may approach each day with an attitude of laissez-faire, or you may tightly schedule your life. Could your plan allow for a blending of the two styles, permitting life to change in a given moment?
Many years ago I realized something very important about public speaking. Some people present their material with the same rehearsed rigidity while others appear to speak impromptu. Personally, when I approach my presentations from a rehearsed script, I feel the material lacks flow and cohesion. Rehearsing my presentation was boring to me as the speaker, so I shifted my approach.
The Plan Within a Plan
Preparation of the material became an evolution, where I wrote over the course of a week. This set a dynamic in motion, where each day the script seemed to grow effortlessly. The day before the presentation I asked myself for 3, 4 or 5 key words and wrote them down on cards. I would speak using the cards as an accelerator and a trigger. My speeches became full of life. Stories emerged as I spoke, and the order of the topics changed dynamically. Not only do I feel amazed at what I deliver, but the audience is more responsive than ever.
This approach translates to everyday life. I have discovered that as I move about my day, situations present themselves in a seemingly random fashion. It is not unusual to receive a phone call, have a person come across my path that I need to contact or notice something special in a window as I pass by.
Life has become a dance and I find other partners while I am at play. Life works. My tasks complete themselves without the stress of getting things done. Appointments fit in perfectly; even traffic seems to cooperate. Life has a flow; a deliberate unknown path surfaces and opportunities present themselves. Sometimes rest is needed and other times I feel energized.
I feel supported as I move about in the world, thus I trust the unknown. My life is lived with synchronicity.
Isn’t this possible for you?
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This was excellent to think about…and move towards. More openness and flexibility lead to opportunity, less stress and greater fulfillment. Thanks!
Thanks for taking time to add your thoughts, Lynell! Let us know what new opportunities open for you.
Laurie